Relationships (troubles, new, old, advice, ranting, etc.)

Aww how cute

i tried that before, it didn't work. things would get too awkward and i don't want that. hence why i think doing it after i graduate would be better. anyway, i'm so excited about this! i think i'm going to make a list of things to say

Oooh that's a good idea. So one of my good friends recently got his heart broken. When he lived in Cali he was treated like @#$% by his girlfriend. So that reallly messed up his idea of "love." Then at the beginning of this year Julia* cheated on him and now Jenna* broke his heart. So he's really hurt, and this doesn't help his whole anti0love thing. He's not doing good. He's so depressed amd doing drugs to take away the pain. I really wanna help him but don't know how. Any advice?


*Names changed XD

Try to...I dunno...rehabilitate him. Show him that love isn't really such a Someone Needs To Wash My Mouth Out With Soap.. As for the drugs, well, in my experience, it takes a really big screw up to make people see that bad they're doing to themselves.

And, you could always hire a hitman and knock off the other two broads. You know, just for the fun of it.

Hahaha yeah at the dance last night I almost punched them in the face but...he held me back. ohh well, I think he's doing better now. But who knows. I really think he should stay away from Freashman cuz they're the ones who break his heart. Sad story

ouch freshmen?

yeah well. my two best friends started dating each other on monday...

kay this is a double post, but new info now...

kay so well i knew my friend Ian has liked me for a really long time (since October I think... longer than that, but he told me he liked me in October) but I haven't been sure if I liked him back or what. I kept thinking he dropped it, but occasionally I'd get reminded that he hadn't.

So well on friday, he asked me on a date. I said yes and so we went out to eat on saturday. I thought that I was just saying yes to the date, but obviously he thought we were going out now because on sunday he changed his facebook status... but I decided to just go ahead and go with it. I figured it was gonna happen sooner or later so i decided not to put it off any longer.

soooo... now i have a boyfriend. whoa that feels weird to type haha.

Honestly, there's no problem with testing out a guy that you could POSSIBLY have feelings for. If it's not for the wrong reasons then I think you should be perfectly happy, RougueHEROsaysBEDWARD.

I had a problem. My boyfriend got TOO involved and told me he loved me all the time (mind you I'm 14) and so I broke up with him because I felt bad about not recipricating the feelings so strongly but I still liked him. Three days later he's dating my best friend who had been after him 2 months before we split.... My luck sucks.

well you know, if hes dating your best friend after only three days, he prolly didnt love you, not to be a bubble popper, but...
ya
and i have basically flat out said to my boyfriend (god i hate that word, not clue why...) that if he tells me he loves me, im slapping him, so ya....
he tried before and i FREAKED
so yaz....
and two best friends going out is never a good thing, it always makes it wierd, just saying.....

I know, cuz then it's all weird.

So the other day I finally told this guy I liked him and he didn't say much back. I wanna know how he feels but I don't want it to be all akward. He said "We'll have to hang out more if this is going anywhere." Help?

aka he wants at least try to make it work

Hmm...I guess. But now he won't even mention what I sadi to him...

well maybe he's just embarressed. but yeah, definately try to hang out with him some more with just y'all two. That's what I did when I was trying to figure out if i liked Ian or not.

so yeah things are fine with him, except sometimes he acts really awkward around me and I have to try really hard to get him to just be normal and have a conversation...

and WEIRD. today my friend told me that she heard that people think he got me pregnant?!?!?! wtf where did that come from?!?!

and also my best friend dated my other best friend, and they were best friends, and it's not weird. ok, maybe just a little. but it's not like completely awkward or anything. they're still best friends. and i'm still best friends with them.

my best friend (the one i've been crushing on for YEARS) finally asked me to homecoming! he told me he misses me now that he doesn't get to see me at school anymore. so.. it's a kind of date and i'm freaking out!

Hm.

Yeah there's also lot's of rumors..."Oh did you hear He got her pregnant!?!?!?!" Gah shut your faces.

And best friends dating is completely akward...

it wasn't for my friends. like at all. it was weird. it seemed pretty natural, but then they broke up...

and that's exciting!

Aww how cute!! XD

I think I might ask my crush to sadies.....Eek I'm nervous.

it definitely is nervewracking. either way, i think it's hard. you either have to gather the courage to ask or just pray he asks you.

Yeah I'm SO nervous

yeah so...

i'm thinking that i might wanna break up with my boyfriend. it's just... i liked it better when we were just friends, cuz now he just acts all awkward around me and can't seem to hold a conversation. i just want him to act normal.

thought i'd update this.

i did break up with him today.

it wasn't as bad as i thought it was gonna be.

My friend met my crush's girlfriend, and she didn't like the girl even before she knew who she was. Apparently there was no PDA and she looked kind of snobbish.

Also, he looked at my boobs today because we were talking about them.

uhmmmm congrats? lol about the boobs thing.

Ahhh he keeps winking at me. And the other day, I was helping him off the floor and he was like "Thank you beautiful lady" And I was like "gah" *melt*

hahaha

my dogs wink at me...

is that weird?